Thursday, October 30, 2008

Ann and Brody's visit

It was so great to see Ann and Brody for a couple of days! Monday was absolutely gorgeous, so we went out to Washington Park and wandered around. The view from the Pittock Mansion (Pittock was owner of the Oregonion for many years) is amazing!


Inside the Pittock Mansion:


Happy Conklins:


We spent a good amount of time wandering around Powell's City of Books, perhaps the best place ever.


That night, Eric made an amazing noodle dish with peanut sauce and we played Trivial Pursuit, Baby Boomer's edition, which we bought with Ann and Brody's visit in mind.


Eric and I had actually tried to play it before, but knew nothing. This time, we just asked Ann and Brody questions--they were happy to compete against each other!

Brush with fame

Last week, Leah's brother, Nathan was in town for a visit and we met for dinner at McMenamins. It's always great to see Mat and Leah and it was fun to meet Nathan.


Nathan is a bit of a celebrity. After inventing a super-fast rope ascender (it's like reverse rappelling), he started a business to sell his product and landed a job as a host of Design Squad, an engineering show for kids that's on PBS. He was actually in town to do some presentations for kids at OMSI and go on a morning news show. Pretty cool. Nathan is a super-nice guy (how could a sibling of Leah's not be?) who just happens to be really smart and creative.

It was a fun evening!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

San Fran

Though our time there was way too short, we were so glad to have a little time last weekend to visit with friends in San Francisco. Two Sundays ago, we left the hotel in Berkeley where we had stayed after Carrie's wedding and headed over to SF on the BART. We met Eric's college friend, Tyler, at his apartment and then had lunch at this amazing vegan place called Herbivore.


In the afternoon, we walked up to the top corner of Dolores Park, which has an incredible view of the city. Sarah, our good friend from Oregon who is in grad school in SF, and her boyfriend, David, came to meet us. Amazingly, Sarah and Tyler live only a mile and a half from each other in the Mission District!
Leah, Tyler's girlfriend, met up with us for dinner another amazing restaurant (there are SO many in that neighborhood!) that serves vegetarian Japanese cuisine.

Walking through the Mission District.


Goose stayed with Tyler that night and they stayed out until 3a.m. I stayed with Sarah and the two of us drank tea on the couch and talked forever, but went to bed at a reasonable hour :) It was so so great to see her and I miss her more than ever now!

The next day, Eric, Sarah and I walked around a bit more. These trees are next to a cool community garden outside of City Hall.

When we went inside, it was neat to see some couples who had just gotten married. Two men were talking to a reporter on the steps after they tied the knot. It is difficult to think that a bill that could reverse the law making it possible for same-sex couples to wed in California will be on the ballot next week.

Lunch was at a delicious little Indian place with Naan bread bigger than your head!

We loved the Bay Area and want to go back when we have more time to see everything--and to hang out with all of our cool friends!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Carrie and Mike's wedding!

Carrie, an Albion friend who's been in the Bay Area since just after we graduated, married Mike in Berkeley on Saturday. It was a gorgeous wedding and a really great party!



Albion, dear Albion... It was so great to see these folks. We sure miss having Lewis as a neighbor!


Lindsay and Lewie cuttin' a carpet.


Carrie was gorgeous and happy!


More Albion folks.


The Goose.


It was so great to be part of the celebration, reconnect with good friends, and get to know other folks who are close to Carrie and Mike. They know some good people!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Visit with Justin and Lilita

Our whirlwind tour of Northern California allowed us two nights to spend with my brother, Justin, and Lil in Chico! We were on our way to Berkeley for a wedding and then to San Francisco, and it worked out well for us to stop in Chico on the way there and on the way back!

After driving all day Friday, we had a delicious home-cooked meal and Justin and Lil's new place, then headed to Cafe Coda to hear some live music. Friends of theirs, Molly and Scott--as the guitar/ukelele duo Dick and Jane--were the opening act...and they were great!



The second band that played was a lively bluegrass trio called Deadwood Revival. That was some fun music.

Justin, Lil and Goose with some giant hands downtown:


On our way back through again, we had amazing chimichangas at Molly's cute little place. It was really nice just to hang out.

Molly's homemade miso soup. So good.


Justin with the ukelele. He really needs to chill out.


It was SO great to see them.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Send-off


Our dear friend, Eliser, is moving back to Tecate, Mexico (near Tijuana) next week, so we took him out for a delicious dinner at McMenamins last night. He has been such a wonderful, faithful friend these past years and we are selfishly sad that he won't be nearby--but we are also so very happy that he will be near his mother and see his family and childhood friends again. We have learned a lot about selfless giving from Eliser. In the four years he's been here, he has sent the majority of his income to his mother and toward the payment of a piece of land. And now he will go back to supervise the building of a house for his mom--something she has never had. Eliser's friendship has been a gift and will continue to be. Now we'll just have to visit him in Tecate.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

A Maze in Grace

Sunday was a gorgeous fall day--perfect for a trip to a corn maze! We took some of the Cornelius UMC youth to this place just south of town and, well, got lost in the corn.



Hay ride! I wore a bandanna over my face because of my severe hay allergy.



Scared?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Happy?! Columbus Day from Eric

Remember this rhyme: “In 1492, Columbus sailed the Ocean Blue”? As an elementary school student, this holiday was an off-day, a day to commemorate the navigational skills, scientific knowledge, bravery, and moxie of a man who introduced America to Spain and who helped to bring civilization to a savage world. My friends and I, instead of playing touch football or hiding in leaf piles, spent our day-off expressing our gratitude to the Spirit of Columbus for getting us to this place of fortune and prosperity. Okay, that last part was a lie, but by giving us the day off, and by teaching us only the Columbian myth, my school implicitly perpetuated the notion that this man should be celebrated, and not heavily critiqued. Honestly, I find it ludicrous, but not hard to believe, that it has always been assumed we should, without question, honor the feats of Columbus, while, up until all-too recently, we debated whether or not to make Martin Luther King’s birthday a holiday.


True, Columbus changed the world. But not because he was able to challenge the flatness of the earth—in truth it was commonly held that the world was round, a theory that existed since at least 4th century BCE; and he didn’t change the world because he was a brilliant navigator—it was his inexperience as a navigator that convinced him, until his death, that he had found India’s eastern shore in the Caribbean. No, he changed the world because he popularized the notion that people who were darker and spoke different languages and who had different customs and cultures were commodities in themselves to be traded, whose land was something to be exploited, and who needed to be conformed, by force if needed, in order to achieve salvation. The wave of death and exploitation sparked by Columbus in Hispaniola and other conquistadors in Central and South America killed millions of human beings while filling European coffers with gold and other precious stones and metals. I believe that this was genocide fueled by greed and nothing else. I invite you today to read the Wikipedia article on Columbus and decide for yourself whether this man’s life should be celebrated or removed from the holiday rolls and remembered with great caution.


I think we have to take a hard look at the motivations for Columbus and the other conquistadors and wonder what similarities there are to how our country engages with the rest of the world today. Columbus claimed that much of what he did was to spread Christianity at all costs to all who could hear. Today, what messages are we spreading to justify our actions at all costs? Are these messages of freedom and democracy the real motivations for pursuing “free trade agreements” with countries that are considerably poorer than we are? Find out for yourself who really prospers and really suffers from such agreements. Columbus was initially welcomed by the first people he came into contact with—his people wore out the welcome once the acquisition of gold became their mission and began enslaving and killing people. How do we, now inhabitants of a land declared to be “ours” through Manifest Destiny’s deceptive treaties and unjust wars, welcome visitors who are different? Do we humbly welcome them home or do we act like this place was “ours” to begin with? Perhaps we are wearing wristbands that ask, What Would Columbus Do?…


In my opinion, in light of the genocide and the exploitation of Central and South American countries that has not stopped since it was begun by the likes of this man, to honor Columbus is comparable to honoring Adolph Hitler, Saddam Hussein, or Henry Kissinger. I would gladly choose to work on this day, and will always encourage school districts to not honor this federally declared “holiday.”

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

The Eye Ball


Eric is a new member of the Forest Grove Lions Club (I call him a cubbie) and we were, as a result, invited to attend a fundraiser for an organization that the Lions have supported for a long time. AMIGOS is made up of optometrists and optometry students who travel all over the world to provide eye care and glasses to folks living in poverty. The fundraiser was fittingly called the Eye Ball. It was lots of fun to get dressed up, hang out with some Lions and eat some good food.

Here are some of our table mates cuttin' a rug. Charles makes me laugh!



Monday, October 06, 2008

Gifts

These past weeks have been full of tension and excitement for us. The tension comes from a movement, a sense that something new is happening, both within us and in the communities of which we are a part. Our days have sometimes been exhausting, but we have been connecting with new people and engaging in surprising conversations.

Perhaps it is that we have stepped gingerly out of crisis/survival mode (trying to constantly figure out how to get by and what the next step will be) and are now able to open ourselves to change and growth. Or maybe that possibility relies too much on logic.... Could this movement be the Spirit?

Eric's small group gatherings at one of his churches have led people to consider moving into a new place as far as how they see themselves as part of this larger community. We have discovered that others are experiencing a nudging, a strange breeze blowing in. I have had the opportunity to talk with "regular" church folks about their experiences with migrants and of being sojourners. I have seen a pastor at a loss for words when a powerful encounter led him to consider abandoning his carefully laid out plan. I have helped 2nd graders insert punctuation into their creative stories.

These encounters have been gifts for us. We are working on letting ourselves get caught up with the movement of the wind.